This article will talk about swinging etiquette, mainly developed for readers that are intending to become first time swingers. Most of the time, it’s just a matter of using some good old fashion common sense. Be sensible with regard to anything. There’s a fairly good chance that if you do not quite know, others have needed to ask the same question. This information will center on 2 crucial elements of etiquette while swinging; speaking to others you are interested in getting together with for swinging and going to a swingers club. The first item will give you advice on the best way to approach potential swinging partners and the second one will discuss when you visit a swingers club.

Swinging etiquette is all about getting the most from an exchange with a potential individual, club, or couple. If you are fascinated with somebody who is wishing to engage in swinging, clarify the reasons why you feel you match with them. Should they ask for you to supply a picture, make sure it shows your face and is also representative of you as an individual or couple. Your exchanges should really be almost as though you’re replying to a job listing. It is crucial you only contact someone if you match exactly what they’re searching for in their ad. It’s also imperative that you realize you will not be the perfect match for everyone, so be well prepared for possible rejection. If it is your first time, it can be a great idea to mention this. In most instances, it won’t be a deal breaker, it’s simply just a good idea to let the other party know you’re a novice to the swinger lifestyle and might not be aware of everything.

Going to a swingers club gives you a pleasant introduction to the lifestyle, in a no pressure atmosphere. Basic fundamentals include a shave, shower as well as clean set of clothes – go as if you were going on a first date. You’re certain to be a little bit nervous your first time, but try to relax and enjoy the experience. You shouldn’t be scared to say no, yet do it politely – it will eventually happen one day, so the golden rule of treating other people as you want to be treated yourself is very important. Never question outside of your limits, when someone isn’t interested in you, the worst thing you could do is ask why.

While swinging, it is a good idea to practice safe sex. Drugs are seen as a negative influence with regards to swinging however social drinking is welcome. Being courteous is a major part of swinger etiquette. If you’re in doubt, do not hesitate to ask and be sure to thank the host.

First time swingers should welcome advice wherever possible and should never take anything said to heart – swinging should be a fun experience for everyone involved, so embrace someone’s effort to help you improve.

If you are swinging for the first time